Showing posts with label parenting siblings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting siblings. Show all posts

Sunday, December 14, 2025

World's messiest room!

 

“World's Messiest Room Award” was an Archies’ poster put up on the door of my room when growing up… and frankly, it was more cosmetic than a reflection of reality. Being the obedient 90’s kid, I didn’t have the liberty to live up to the award…but it gave a “cool’ and a “bohemian” touch to an otherwise prim and proper state of things in my so-called room during an age when the concept of privacy was literally unheard of!

Little did I know that there was someone more deserving of the award than me and that too almost three decades later…a mini me of sorts …my daughter! My ten year old couldnt be bothered about the mess she creates and we are at our wit’s end with her dont-care attitude about the chaos in her room! Her table is perpetually cluttered with her stationery (which is and always will be her first love!), her innumerable diaries filled with her random sketches, books that she has been reading, or has already read and plans to read again, or the new books checked out from the library, origami craft works and the resultant craft waste, abandoned handcrafts kept as knick-knacks (passed on by another hoarder in our family!😊), half eaten fruit bowls, chocolate wrappers, crumpled paper with disregarded drawings….you name the waste and Aadya’s table will have it! Don’t even get me started on what she dumps on her bed, her mini drawing table and her mini trampoline that also doubles up as temporary stack for even more junk! So much so that the earlier inhabitant of her room (her older brother) is often appalled at what his erstwhile room has become! No wonder it became almost impossible for the siblings on the opposite sides of the spectrum on the point of neatness to share a room! With her older brother having moved to his own room, Aadya has the entire room to herself…… for making a mountain of a mess, while she couldn’t care less!



It's been a while since I picked up a picture book for my not-so-little-one owing to the fact that she now considers herself all too grown up for a picture book, and is miffed that it deprives her of a chapter book that she could have borrowed instead as per her 6-book plan of Kahaani box library. But I couldn’t resist picking out “Zippy Messes Up” by Anitha Balachandran and hoped it could instill the importance of cleaning up, in my untidy little devil. 



Part of the Zippy series, featuring an anthropomorphic Zebra named Zippy and her group of friends all belonging different species with distinct personalities. Zippy and her friends  are forced to shift their play indoors to Chikki, the monkey’s room, owing to the rains outside. As its time to wrap up their games of cars, carrom board, paper crafts, blocks, jigsaw puzzles all played over cookies and sandwiches, they finally acknowledge the mess in the room!  (That never happens in our case!) Reluctantly they pick up the toys one by one and put them back where they belong, whilst getting their feet stuck in the wet and gooey mess of food leftovers, wiping the walls clean of the paint stains, and exerting all their energies into pushing the carrom board across the floor and Chikki’s room is finally made livable after all the Shramdan!  A nice little book to goad your little ones to clean up after themselves. I was hoping that our little slob would take a cue from Zippy and her friends, only to find her smart-mouthing her way through her messiness with saying “An artist’s room will always be messy”!  ðŸ˜•

 

Thursday, May 25, 2023

Julley...A Ladakhi adventure!

 


 Difficult roads lead to beautiful destinations” read one of the road signs as we got out of Leh’s Kushok Bakula Rimpochee airport  and the saying probably best represented Ladakh’s landscape and told us what we could to expect from our eight-day long trip to the land of high mountain passes. Ladakh is truly a visual wonder – with its landscapes alternating from rocky to sandy, from gravelled to snow-covered, with deep valleys and gorges, allowing us to experience bright sunshine at sub-zero temperatures!

 





We best remember the land of Siachen warriors for the surround view of the imposing and colossal Karakorum mountainous range emitting myriad shades of purple, green, brown, red and russet,  Buddhist monasteries and Stupas perched atop the most picturesque locales,  snow covered high altitude passes that makes one breathless both literally and figuratively and its pristine lakes that have much more to offer than “All is well” selfies, vegetarian friendly one pot (read bowl) meals of Skyu, Chhutagi, Thukpa and Thenthuk and enriching and awe-inspiring experience at the Hall of Fame museum of the Indian armed forces, and of course a fantastic opportunity to capture the milky way in its night skies, provided one is ready brave the biting cold in the dead of the night!  



 




Ladakh offers a little bit of everything for everyone - a “push your limits” adventure  for the brave-hearts, a meditatively calming experience at the monasteries for the spiritually inclined, scenic drives with breath taking views of the valleys and elevated ranges for the mountain bound, feeling the rush of ice cold waters from Pangong lake to Shey river, from Zanskar to Indus rivers for the water body,  hopping from one Tibetian market to another on Leh’s market  for the shopaholic, tasting the wide ranging array of local cuisine to feast on for the foodie, and not to forget the quiet starry nights for the astro-photography aficionado - the roof of the world truly has lots to offer apart from a much needed break from the sweaty summer of the South (so much so we forgot what it was like to perspire until we landed in Delhi on our way back to Bangalore!).


 

As always, none of our trips is complete without visiting a local book store, and we did manage to find one such place at Leh’s market called “Ladakh Book shop” However, I was a tad disappointed when we couldn’t lay our hands on any children’s books on Ladakh or any book on local children’s stories, and instead found many books on Tibetan tales for children.  



But considering that Ladakh is known for its monasteries spreading the message of world peace, we picked up “Jataka Talesbirth stories of Buddha” selected and retold by Ethel Beswisk, – a nice little compilation of Buddha’s stories originally narrated in Pali, during the course of his forty years after his enlightenment. Brought out in the form of delightful stories revolving around mostly animal stories, with values and life lessons to imbibe from, for children and adults alike. “Jataka Tales” will also serve as a bibliographic souvenir reminding us our Ladakhi adventure! 




 However, for a children’s book on Ladakh, I didn’t have to travel too far and was pleasantly surprised to have found this book tucked away in the corner of one of our book shelves,  bought a few years ago in the hope of travelling to Ladakh someday! “Sonam’s Ladakh”, a Katha publication by Manish Lakhani is a wonderful book that vividly captures the essence of the Ladakhi landscape, Ladakhi culture and its people. Narrated by the five year old Sonam,  who belongs to the indigenous semi nomadic Changpa tribe, the book takes one through a visual tour of Ladakh during the peak of its winter and its myriad summer colours, of its flora and fauna, pristine lakes and its beautiful monasteries and best of all through Ladakh’s “quiet nights full of stars”!  Sonam’s Ladakh is surely a must-visit and a must-read for those getting Leh’d this travel season!   Our Ladakh trip was like a breath of fresh air, and we came back refreshed, rejuvenated and carrying a little bit of Ladakh with us!