Even since I began my blogging journey in 2010, "Onestoryaday:
Reliving childhood" has been an integral part of my life. What began as my
little DIY project on the wonderful books I read to my then four year old, grew
into a creative outlet for me to escape into, a sounding board for my parental
musings, and unknowingly became a treasure trove of Abhay's childhood memories!
So it's only natural for Onestorayday to be a part of many of Abhay's
milestones in his growing-up years and was
thus became one of the highlights during his Upanayana-Brahmopadesha ceremony that we
performed a couple of weeks ago.
Abhay's upanayana would most certainly rank as a major
milestone for him as well as for us, as his parents and in many ways symbolizes
his transition from childhood to early youth or "Brahmacharya" phase,
as its traditionally known. Also known as the "Indian Bat Mitzwa"
Upanayana celebrates the coming of age for a young boy from the cosseted
company of his parents into a path of strict discipline and learning.
While it may be easy to question the relevance and
practicality of certain Hindu samskaras like Upanayana, in today's age and
times, there is no denying the fact that these cultural elements are what makes
us unique and as practicing Hindus, it is incumbent on us to understand and
derive their true essence and find ways and means to adapt the same into
present circumstances.
Performing Sandhya-vandana twice a day is a
spiritual activity that allows the Bramhmachari to have his own "one-on-one"
with the Almighty, a time to calm and ease the restless mind into focusing all
his senses into chanting for the well-being of nature, one's mind, body and
soul. Needless to say, for today's high pressured, distracted and device-obsessed
young minds, a spiritual activity like Sandhyavandana
may be their only solace!
While marking the momentous role of the father in
passing the knowledge of Brahmopadesha to his young son, the Upanayana ceremony
also incorporates many small and beautiful rituals that allows the mother to
reflect on how her little one is not so little anymore and is ready to embark
on the path of learning and take on the world!
I thoroughly enjoyed planning, organizing
(along with the rest of the family) hosting and participating in Abhay's Upanayana ceremony. So much so that
I wish I could do the same for my daughter!! :-)
Well, no event of ours is complete without
return gifts, and no prizes for guessing the return gifts for children - books of course! We picked out Pratham publications for all children between
the age groups one to fourteen and as always I was the most excited one
distributing books to the kids!
Another event planned around Abhay's Brahmopadesham
Upanayana ceremony was the release of a small compilation of some of my select
blogposts on "Onestoryaday" through a book titled "Onestoryaday
Reliving childhood". Since most of my blogposts revolve around my reading
adventures with Abhay and Abhay's growing up quirks, we hit upon an idea that there
could not be better place or time than Abhay's Upanayana ceremony, to bring
about a small compendium of some of our memorable reading experiences! Of
course, an idea can remain just an idea if not for the people behind its
execution. I thank my husband, my kindred spirit, in as
much as it's his blog as its mine, who managed to find time amidst his
overloaded work schedule to structure a 600-post-blog into a readable book
format. My good friend Deepa Balakrishnan, who promptly and generously agreed to
write a beautiful foreword that captures the very sentiment behind the blog
Onestoryaday. My parents, my biggest cheerleaders, for their constant support, encouragement
and whole-hearted involvement in sponsoring
the publication of the book "Onestoryaday Reliving childhood". Manjushri Printers, Ujjire, for their professional
work and service in printing the books in no time. Last but not the least, my faithful
readers who take the trouble of clicking on the link or regularly look up and
like my posts and leave comments/words of encouragement...would not have come
this far ...without you all !! Thank you!
Anyway, seeing Abhay wear the Janivara or the sacred
thread, don the traditional attire, applying the traditional Bhasma or holy
ash, chant the Gayathri Mantra and perform Sandhyavandana, I can't help but
notice that our little boy is all grown up! On this occasion, I found a book that offers an everyday perspective on
Hinduism. "A little book for The Hindu Child" by Dr. Shyamala Vatsa
seeks to simplify Hindu concepts to a level that children can comprehend. As we
began reading the book, it is interesting to note that the author traverses
through Hindu religious philosophy via certain basic questions on religion (Why
do you need religion?), Hindusim (What is Hindusim?) God ( What is your
relationship with God?) mind (What are our minds made up o?), soul (what is
soul?), goal (How can you reach your goal?) and destination in life ( How do
you decide what is right and what is not?), etc and attempts to relate the same
to the present context in an age appropriate manner. The book is a work in progress for us, as
we've decided to go one chapter a day so as to dwell, soak in and mull on each chapter a day so as to understand what it means to be a Hindu. So all the
best to Abhay on his path to taking up Sandhyavandana and the Smartha tradition.