I wouldn’t
say that parenting a second child is easier than the first time around but you
are certainly a lot more laid back the second time around, given the many ‘been
there and done that’ instances that you come across as your little one grows
through the usual milestones. What had earlier caused a storm in the household would
hardly cause a flutter now; What appeared to be a mountain earlier is not even
mole hill now; Similarly, the things that you fussed over your older one, don’t
appear to fuss-worthy with your little one;
Of course, there may be many first-time issues with your younger one
that you’ve never encountered before,
but wizened up over your parenting years, you know that you gotta do
what you gotta to do and there is no point in stressing too much over it…..as ultimately “The
Kids are all Right”!!!
On the
flipside though, you can also run the risk of taking some things a little too
lightly as there is always a thin line between nonchalance and neglect. I
suddenly realized that while Abhay’s first days of school were a big event, I don’t
even remember Aadya’s first day of her
play-school. It was only when we went
for Aadya’s first school event, that it struck me that though
it’s been close to six months since my little one started playschool, I don’t even
have a post on the same on Onestoryaday!
So to make up for all this lassitude
and as its better late than never, we
revisited a book that we had read as she started school in June, one more gem from Kutoohala, “Goat goes to Playgroup” by Julia Donaldson and Nick Sharatt, Perfect
for toddlers starting pre-school/playgroup, this book is centered around the mischievous
little goat who joins his other animal friends in the school playgroup. The
character of the goat is mirrored on that naughty little kid in the class, who
never seems to sit in the designated place during circle time, or mixes and
messes up the water colours while painting, tries out dangerous stunts in the
play ground and has accidents everywhere ( My little one is in this phase
now!)
A lovely book for the little ones, with playful illustrations to identify
with and laugh over and simple one-liner verses to read and repeat, a perfect play-group book. My little
one…you may be growing up sooner than we can keep up……but going down the same
path the second time over makes it much more enjoyable and memorable than the
first time! As you begin a new chapter in your life........enjoy the school days…those golden rule days!!